She said he was “pushing her away,” and when she warned him he was pushing too much, he didn’t seem to care… If you’ve ever had this happen to you, and you’re confused as to what was going on, let me make things clear: your ex knew exactly what he was doing. So, how do you know if your boo wants to end things but doesn’t actually want to be the person who ends things? Unless he's really dumb, he's not going to just give other girls attention in front of his girlfriend and expect nothing to happen.Read these 10 signs he’s trying to make you break up with him. Source: Shutter Stock I once dated a guy who forced me to break up with him.A few weeks ago, a friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend who she had been dating for a few years. As silly as this may sound, it happens all the time. Plenty of girls do it as well – although I have to say in my personal experience, I’ve seen males do this a lot more.They were in a really serious relationship, and to me, their breakup came as a total shock. She told me that for months, he had been acting differently: cold, distant, and just not himself. As macho as they may try to be, a lot of men out there are too immature and scared to break up with a girl on their own. They want to maintain the image that they’re a nice guy who didn’t do the dumping out of nowhere. So, they push her to break up thinking that it will be less of a blow. Forcing your partner to break up with you so that you don’t have to do it yourself is something that’s been happening forever, and will continue to happen, because some people are cowards. If your boyfriend suddenly starts flirting with other girls knowing full well you can see him doing it - in person or on Facebook - he's sending you a message.
However if you're into messing with a girl's mind, like and fav everything she posts every day for a month and then suddenly stop. You don't want to write "haha" on her "getting this lump looked at" check-in.Here's a stock line a friend gave me several years ago that I still use: "It was nice meeting you but I just didn't feel a total connection." Sure, it doesn't feel all that great getting this text.But it If you've gone on several dates, or had sex, or offered the promise of a relationship by saying things like you'd hang up pictures for her in her apartment, or asked her to be your date to your cousin's wedding in two months: you need to do more than text a farewell.Unless he is genuinely busy, it means he's trying to distance himself from you.At that point, he knows he's doing something that is going to upset you and hurt you, but he also doesn't care.